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Maybe I'm just an aging curmudgeon, or a classic DiSC C-type personality but I'm not a fan of social networks. I've tried to get into them, I gave them a chance. Years ago I tried MySpace and Xanga and just couldn't work up the interest. More recently I created a Facebook account and I barely touch it. I created a Twitter account and have never once posted a single tweet, let alone actually follow anyone else. I do have a LinkedIn profile that I've grown and fostered over the last five years or so, and I think that sheds a lot of light on to why I don't generally like other social networking sites.
Sites like MySpace and Xanga require regular maintenance in order to remain somewhat interesting for readers. Exactly how interesting they are is subjective, I personally have little interest in them outside of technical ones. Technical ones I love, because legitimate information sharing is how things really should be, but for the most part, social blogs read like diary entries, or advertisements for bands and movies. I neither want to read someone's diary nor write my own. They are the equivalent of reality television, which has since realized it's own limits has moved on to manufacturing plots with its cast of non-actors. Maybe I would read someone's fictional MySpace blog?
Facebook takes slightly less effort, depending on how you use it. I personally couldn't get into any of the applications, so the experience was really just reading people's status and writing wall to wall. But I would rather IM someone or shoot them an email, than use a proprietary messaging system that doesn't give me control over archiving, organizing or storing my past messages.
My issue with Facebook status is the same as my issue with Twitter: besides my children, there's no one else that I care to know what random thing they are doing at any random point in a day, nor do I think what I'm doing at any point in a day is so interesting that others would care to read about it. That might sound more harsh or anti-social than my real meaning. Between work, teaching, spending time with my family, and now continuing my education, there is very little time to pay attention to much else.
But now LinkedIn is perfect for me. It deals with work, which is something that falls into the above list of things that I focus on. LinkedIn, for the most part, is fairly passive. It does have some form of proprietary messaging system that I try not to interact with, and some apps to play that seem almost garish when added to a profile, but it's core raison d'être is solid: maintaining and fostering a professional network.
I can't speak for the rest of the country, but the talent pool in the technology sector in Philadelphia is relatively small. Over the years if you work at enough companies you begin to see the same names, or at least have several contacts in common with most people you will interact with. LinkedIn lets you realize these connections and capitalize on them, possibly by recruiting to staff your own teams with people you trust, or being recruited by someone you've worked with and impressed in the past.
I think I am very much a silent minority in this matter, but my only interest in social networks is for business networking.




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I'm the same way. I don't use the latest fad-based social networking website because I don't see them being used as social networking sites. Most people treat them as "this is what I'm doing at this moment", thinking that other people care. If you use it to keep in touch with people, especially those you can't see or speak to on a regular basis, then you're using it as intended. My wife uses Facebook to keep in touch with old schoolmates, friends, family and even past students from her teaching days. These are people who live nowhere near us nor can we afford her calling them everyday. That's the advantage of these networks and most people don't seem to use them that way.
I guess it depends on whom you follow. I follow a lot of people who I know through sites like this, and it's like having a whole network of people filtering through all of the technical blogs and articles to bring me the ones they find most interesting.
Are their choices always what I would have chosen? No. But sometimes that's a good thing, and I know where the little x is on the browser tab to close it if it's not ofinterest.
I also follow various news personalities whose coverage I like, and this keeps me up-to-date on breaking stories, whether or not I have time to watch tv or listen to the radio.
Also, you get out of these what you put in. If you share your "finds" with others, they not only will likely reciprocate, they may be inspired by the great things you're sending them to do even more (tecchies are very competitive at heart).
And if you get to the point where you actually _need_ a social network (if you lose your job for instance), then the fact that you've given them things of value without asking for anything in return means that when you need something in return they might be more interested in helping out.
@amy - I would say that you are using them as sources of information and to keep in contact with people for various reasons. To me that is a reasonable and excellent use of those resources.
On the other hand, if you were using those resources to let everyone know that your dog just scratched at the door to be let out...
Or you partied hard last night and today you're skipping work because you're hung over...
Or that you just spent the last half hour clipping your toe nails while watching Survivor reruns...
Well, I just can't see the benefit in that personally.